The most common terms:
The Girlfriend Experience - GFE:
It’s SEX! It’s… sex. It’s everything you’d do with your partner, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, whatever. It’s the basics; it’s hugging, kissing, licking, blow jobs, hand jobs, oral, penetration.
The Porn Star Experience - PSE:
Same as the Girlfriend Experience, only louder and more expensive. We pull more exaggerated faces and say, ‘Oh yeah, oh god yeah!’ a lot more, because porn has taught you that’s how sex should be done, right? Frankly, if you’re the kind of idiot who thinks a penis in a vagina can be any more magical than it already is, then you deserve to lose the extra money.
Deep French Kissing - DFK:
That’s correct, kissing is not automatically included in the Girlfriend Experience. I would always say it was discretionary, as I’ll have no smooches with green teeth or halitosis. Turning up at the door with a cold sore on your lip means a big nope.
Greek - Greek Play
Do you speak Greek? Greek play? If you didn't know already, this just means anal. Not another language.
I don't do anal.
Don’t touch the chocolate starfish.
Leave my balloon knot alone.
However, I have a 12in black strap-on (actually quite a few of differing lengths and girths) with your name on it. Which brings me to...
Pegging refers to when a woman penetrates a man anally with a strap-on dildo. I have a few accruments for this.
The term means kinky sexual acts that push your boundaries (consensually) to the edge, which can be exhilarating for some.
What is considered edge play differs from person to person, as we all have our own boundaries and limits? For some, psychological play such as name-calling may be edge play. I offer a variety of edge play scenarios.
So, getting those terms out of the way, let's look at some of those interesting acronyms.
In Alphabetical Order
AAMP Apartment Asian Massage Parlor, a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased
AAMP or AMP Asian-American Massage Parlor (more politically correct acronym)
Aircon BBBJ + Hacks (a sweet mint) Example: When the masseuse asks, “want aircon?” if yes, she puts one ‘hacks sweet’ into her mouth and start giving a blow job
Amazon A masculine female, tall and strong
AMP Asian Massage Parlor
Analingus licking anus, anal rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)
Anal Rimming Oral stimulation of anus
AR Anal Rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)
Around the world Analingus and Fellatio
Asian Cowgirl Girl on top, squatting
AR Ass Rim, Anal Rimming
ASP Adult Service Provider
ATF All-Time Favorite
ATM Ass To Mouth
Aunt Flo Menstruation
AVN Adult Video News/Awards, a porn industry convention and awards show. (Side note: I have been once before. It was SPECTACULAR!)
Bait and Switch Person who shows up is a different one than advertised
Baja Sur Genitals From the spanish “the low south”
Balloons Breast implants
Bareback Sex without condom
BBBJ Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom)
BBBJTC Bare Back Blow Job to Completion (oral sex to orgasm)
BBBJNQNS Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit
BBBJTCWS Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing
BBBJWF Bare Back Blow Job With Facial
BBFS Bare Back Full Service (sex without condom)
BBW Big Beautiful Woman
BDSM Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism.
BGB Boy-girl-boy, as is a threesome with two guys and one girl
BJ Blow Job (oral sex on a man)
BL Body Lick
BLS Ball Licking and Sucking
Blue Pill Viagra
Blue Steel Viagra
Brown Shower Defecation on your partner
BS Body slide Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil, or Nuru
BS Body Scrub
BSD Big Swinging Dick
Call Girl Outcall provider usually implies call type agency
Cash and Dash takes the money and runs
CBJ Covered Blow Job (oral sex with a condom)
CC Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes used for fees. (Roman Numeral converter)
CC Credit Card
CD Cross-dresser: transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification
CDS Covered Doggy Style
CFM Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.
CFS Covered Full Service (sex with condom)
CIM Cum in Mouth
COB Cum on Breast
COF Cum on Face
Collar and Cuffs match Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes)
Covered Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used.)
CG Cowgirl girl on top facing you
Date-Check A third party website that acts as a pre-screening service, but is more like a classifieds for providers and clients to connect and network
DATO Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus
DATY Dining at the Y (Performing oral sex on a woman)
DDE Doesn’t Do Extras (PS only)
DDF Drug and Disease Free
DDG Drop Dead Gorgeous
DDP Double Digit Penetration (pussy and anus), or just DP
Deep Throat where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”
Deposit A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session.
DFE Dead Fish Experience
DFF Dead Fish Fuck
DFK Deep French Kissing
DIY Do It Yourself (masturbation)
Doggie Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.
Doggie Style Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.
Donation Payment to a provider
Doubles A threesome with two girls and you
DP Double Penetration
DP Digital penetration
DS Doggy Style
DSL Dick Sucking Lips
DT Dining at the Toes
DT Deep Throat
Dungeon A place where dominatrices and clients or just plain civilian people can go to use a variety of BDSM sex apparatuses
Ellie LE, Law Enforcement
EMA Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage
Enhancements Breast implants, butt implants, lip implants
Envelope Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall).
EOM End Of Message
Eros An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
Escort A woman who is paid for her companionship, a temporary companion for hire
Escort Mall An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
Face painting Man ejaculates on woman’s face
Facial Cumming on partner’s face
FBSM Full Body Sensual Massage
FFF Refers to the strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them”
Fire and ice a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice
FIV Finger In Vagina
Five-O A police officer (uniformed or undercover).
FJ Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FJ Fuck Job
FK French Kiss, French Kissing
FKK Frei Körper Kultur (German brothel / nudist club)
FL Free Lance
Flake Flaky Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
FOB Fresh Off the Boat (Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US)
FOTC Fuck Of The Century
FOV Finger Outside Vagina
FR Field Report, Fuck Review
French Oral sex on either party.
French Kissing Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
French Without Oral sex without condom
FS Full Service (complete sex)
Full meal deal Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion.
Full Service Intercourse
FUTB Finger Up The Butt
GBG Girl-Boy-Girl, as in a threesome with two girls and one guy
Get Comfortable Get completely naked.
GDP Garota de Program (working girl, on the program)
GF Girl Friend
GFE Girl Friend Experience, typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
GF3 Girl Friend Experience w/all three holes
GND Girl Next Door
Golden Shower Urinating on your partner, urine play.
GS Golden Shower (urination play)
GSM G-Spot Massage
GV Geschlechtsverkehr = Intercourse (in German)
Half and Half Oral sex followed by intercourse.
Happy ending A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage
Hardwood Floors Clean shaven pussy.
HC Health Center
HC High Class
HDH high dollar hottie
HE Happy Ending
Herb Friendly Is open to marijuana use.
HH half hour
HHHJ Half Hearted Hand Job.
Hidden Charges A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.)
Hindu Massage (Argentina) The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion.
HJ Hand Job
HWP Height and Weight Proportionate
IMHO In My Humble/Honest Opinion
Independent, Indie An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
IPO Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review.
ISO In Search Of
Italian Penis rubbing between butt cheeks.
Jack Shack Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modeling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but more services might be available.
Jimmy Hat A condom
Lapdog Person who worships providers to excess
L/A/S Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
Landing Strip Description of pubic hair
LFK Light Face Kissing
Little Blue Helper Viagra
Little Blue Pill Viagra
LK Light Kissing (closed mouth)
LMP Licensed Massage Practitioner
LOL Laugh Out Loud
LTR Long Term Relationship Madame Proprietress of an agency
Mall, Escort Mall A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
Man in a boat little man in a boat Clitoris
Massage Parlor A residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased
MBR Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG)
Mediterranean Anal sex e.g. “She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean.”
Merkin Pubic hair wig
MFF Male-female-female, as in a threesome with one guy and two girls
MFM Male-female-male, as in a threesome with two guys and one girl
MG Massage Girl
MIB Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
Mileage A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.
MILF Mother I’d Like to Fuck.
Mish Missionary position, Man on top during intercourse
Missionary Man on top, girl on back
MJ Massage Job
ML Make Love
ML Massage Lady
MM Man made breasts
Mohawk A thin rectangular strip of pubic hair
Monger Short for W h o r e monger. One who frequents prostitutes.
MP Massage Parlor
MP Multiple Pops (multiple releases)
MPA Massage Parlor Attendant
MSOG Multiple Shots on Goal (multiple releases)
Multiple Pops She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
NCNS No call, no show for appointment, stood up
Newbie A novice hobbyist or novice provider.
NGP Non Genuine Photos
NMG No-Money Guys. Mongers who travel on a strict budget.
Nooner A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
No-Show Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn.
No-Touch No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club)
NQBC Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.
NQBS Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
NQNS Non-quitter, non-spitter. BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate.
NSA No Strings Attached.
NURU Nude body rub / slide with oils
O Os Orgasm, orgasms
Off-the-clock Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock”)
Outcall The girl provider comes to you
Out, Outed Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address are posted to a public forum.
OV Oralverkehr = Oral Sex (in German)
OWO Oral With Out a condom
OWOTC Oral Without Condom To Completion
Party Hat Condom
Pearl Necklace Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest
PFF Pussy For Free
PM Private Message sent via the Forum’s Private Message service.
PO Phone Operator
POF Plenty of Fish
Pooner A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.
Pops, multiple She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
POS Pussy on the Side
Papers STD tests, example, “I’m clean, I’ll show you my papers, let’s not use condoms”
Preferred 411 A third party date check service where both providers and clients can be screened by the service. Then provide their “handle” to potential clients and providers so they can view likes/dislikes of one another to ensure compatibility and screening him
Price per act More common with streetwalkers and call agencies, girl charges a price per act, a BJ is one price, full service is another price, kissing is a different price, and so on
PSE Porn Star Experience
Punter British slang for a man who engages in sex with prostitutes.
PV Private Viewing (Dance)
PW Pussy Whipped (A guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex)
R & T Rub and Tug (a massage followed by a hand job)
RA Relaxation Assistant
RAW Sex without condom
RB myredbook.com (a former review site based in the San Francisco Bay Area, now shut down)
RCA Reverse Cowgirl Anal
REQ Request – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.
REV Review – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a review of a provider.
Reverse Cowgirl Girl on top facing away.
Reverse Half and Half Intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.
Reverse Massage You massage her.
Review A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service
Review Boards An online database where clients and providers openly chat about prostitution, advertise services, and read specific details about how a date with an escort might go
Reverse Oral The client performs oral sex on the provider.
RLD Red Light District
RMP Russian Massage Parlor
ROB Rip Off B i t c h
ROFLMAO Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing My Ass Off!
Roman An orgy situation
Roman Shower Vomit play
Roses As in hundred dollar bills, how many roses equals how many hundreds of dollars, for example 400 roses = $400. See info below.
RPG Role playing games
RSK2 A third party date check service where men can pay for membership, be screened by the service, then give his “handle” to potential providers so she can screen him through the service
RTF Return To Fuck
RTFF Read the Fucking Forum
Russian Penis rubbing between breasts/titty fuck
Russian In Australia Short sex session, aka a “Quickie”
Safe Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe
San Juan Capistrano BBBJTC and she swallows.
Sandbag, Sandbagger A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ
SC Strip Club
Scat Defecation on your partner or feces play.
Screening A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client
Seeking Arrangements A classifieds style website that men and women can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Self-post A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Self-Service You masturbate e.g. “It was a self-service jack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
Sensual Massage Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
Session Paid time spent with a provider.
Sex Worker Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses
SFH Sex for hire
SG Street Girls
Shemale Transexual particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect
Shill An insider posing as a satisfied customer
Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider
Shots on goal Shot On Goal (one release/orgasm)
Sixty Nine, 69 Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously
Slam, Slammed An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider
Slixa An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
SO Significant Other
SOF Shit on Floor
SOG Shot On Goal (one release/orgasm)
SOMF Sat on my face
SOP Standard Operating Procedure
Soixante neuf 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously
SOMF Sat On My Face SOP Standard Operating Procedure
South of the Border Genital Region
Southern France BBBJ
SP Service Provider
SPA streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA
Spanish ATM Ass to Mouth
Spanish In Australia Penis between breasts
Spinner Very petite, thin girl
Sponge An absorbent item inserted into the vagina during a menstrual cycle
Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates
SRS Sexual reassignment surgery
ST Short Time
STD Sexually Transmitted Disease
Sting A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
STR Short Term Relationship
Street action Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location
Stripper Slide A provider slides her vagina back and forth across a males genitalia uncovered
Stroll Path frequented by street walkers
Sugardaddy.com A classifieds-style website that men (sugar daddies) and women (sugar babbies) can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Summer Teeth Her teeth, some are there, some are not
Sunshine, Sunny Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat)
SW Street Walker
SW Sex Worker
SWOP Sex Workers Outreach Program, a non-profit company that provides services to prostitutes seeking help
Sybian A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle
SYT Sweet Young Thing
Take care of business Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first”
Teabag Man squats and dips balls in partner’s mouth
TER The Erotic Review, a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another
TGTBT Too Good To Be True
Throne Job Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Tipping required Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services.
TLD topless lap dance
TLN Toda La Noche (“All the Night” in Spanish)
TOFTT Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.
Took one for the team A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake.
TOS Take Out Service
Tossing Salad analingus
Translation, translator Condom i.e. “She spoke fluent french without a translator” = BBBJ
Tri-F A devotee to the “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them” strategy
Trick A sex act for money.
Trick A man who patronizes prostitutes.
Troll Rude and hideous person
Trolling Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum.
Trolling The act of driving around looking for a prostitute.
TS Table Shower
TTA Tight Tan Ass
Tuft Description of pubic hair.
TUMA Tongue Up My Ass
Turn tricks Prostitution
TVSW Transvestite Street Walker
Two Call System For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number.
Uncovered Without a condom
Upsell The price changes once she gets in the room
UTR Under The Radar, a provider who doesn’t mass-market advertise
Vet (someone) Screen them to make sure they’re legit and safe to see
VFM Value For Money
WAH Wild Ass Humping
Water Sports Urination play.
Weeklies Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger. OR A hotel that is rented by the week
WF Wild Fuck
WG Working girl. A prostitute.
WK White Knight A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.
With With condom (e.g. French with = CBJ)
Without Without condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ)
WIR Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend
WL Working Lady
WOA Word of Advice
Working girl A prostitute.
WSW White Street Walker
WTF What the Fuck? (I’m rather surprised by this)
XOXO Kisses & Hugs
YMMV Your Mileage May Vary, reviews aren’t always consistent, usually depends on how well you “click”
1/2 and 1/2 Half and half, oral sex + full service
411 information, details
420 4:20 friendly open to marijuana use
69 oral sex at the same time, usually facing opposite directions
Old School Terms you MAY still see:
400 Roses $400
Whew...we made it through all that. A thorough and pretty much universal guide for all of us.
I started researching terms some time ago when someone asked me if ATM was okay during a session.
Uh. No. It is not. Thank you, Google! I had originally thought it had meant At The Moment.